.png){kind=icon}
.png){kind=icon}
.png){kind=icon}
Does Shyness Make You Avoid People? | Dr. Tulika
Author : Dr Tulika | 13 Jun 2025
Introduction
Do you feel nervous in crowds? Avoid family functions? Say no to parties or work gatherings because you feel too shy?
You’re not alone. Many people experience shyness. But when it begins to stop you from meeting people and enjoying life, it’s time to understand why — and what you can do about it.
What Is Shyness?
Shyness is a natural emotion that makes a person feel nervous or uncomfortable around others, especially strangers or large groups. It’s normal to feel shy sometimes — like on your first day at a new job or when meeting new people.
But for some, shyness becomes so strong that it stops them from socializing and connecting with people.
When Does Shyness Become a Problem?
- If your shyness makes you:
- Avoid meeting friends or relatives
- Stay silent in groups, even when you have something to say
- Feel very nervous before social events
- Overthink after simple conversations
- …it might be affecting your mental well-being and your social life.
- Over time, this can lead to loneliness, low self-confidence, and stress.
Why Does This Happen?
Many factors can make people overly shy:
Fear of judgment
Past bad social experiences
Low self-esteem
Worrying too much about others’ opinions
What You Can Do About It
✅ Start small — Attend a small gathering of people you trust.
✅ Practice deep breathing to calm your mind before meeting people.
✅ Talk to someone you trust about your feelings.
✅ Seek professional help — A mental health expert can help you slowly reduce your shyness in safe, supportive ways.
Conclusion
👉 Visit www.drtulikamindcare.com — Let’s talk about it. You deserve to feel confident, free, and happy.
